Anglo Indian Matrimonial WhatsApp Group - The Culmination of the long awaited need for the Community's match finding network.'

 

The Need for an Anglo Indian Community-Specific Matrimonial WhatsApp/Network Group in today's Digital Age. 

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In today's digital age, online matrimonial sites/platforms have become unscrupulous money making ventures taking advantage of prospective brides, grooms, and their old school parents for a ride by promising a dream life partner, only to leave them high and dry and thereby robbing them off their precious years, time and hard-earned money.

Matrimonial websites generally cater to a wider community with the ulterior motive to make money out of the helpless match seekers. In spite of the proliferation of matrimonial websites, there remains a significant gap for certain micro-minority communities like Anglo Indians that lack a dedicated match finding platform keeping in mind their dwindling numbers, migration and mixing with other cultures due to non-availability of matches from their own community.

Thus, an Anglo-Indian WhatsApp group is the need of the hour that could cater to their specific needs like its unique culture, cuisine, customs, traditions and other needs of the community.

Disadvantages of a general online matrimonial websites include exorbitantly high cost of registration fees, renewal fees, fragmentation of members registering on various websites thereby requiring a prospective bride or groom to register one’s profile across multiple websites to find a suitable match which can necessitate regular additional costs and complicate the match finding process.

John Vagus Dcruz, a retiree NRI was forced to register on at least four matrimonial websites for his 27-year-old computer professional working in the US.  Unable to find a match from his own community in spite of registering on at least three popular websites, he decided to place advertisements in a well-known local newspaper to try his luck which he did for three times spanning for three years but to no avail.

Having watched many stand up comedians, his son John Dcruz Junior, the youngster was bowled over by an episode “why am I still unmarried at 30”, many of the reasons mentioned in that comedy episode related to him as well in spite of being the most eligible bachelor in his college alumni armed with a Green Card in the US well on his way to eventually acquiring the most powerful passport in the world. He wondered if the Covid 19 was the culprit in the advancement of marriage age of women but realized that he was a beneficiary of the Covid while many of his friends had lost precious three years in the process.

Doughie, as he was fondly known by his friends in school, decided to troubleshoot the matter, this time it was a different ballgame for him as his job was to fix computer bugs. 

Sifting through the enormous data and the profiles of prospective brides across all the four websites his dad had registered his profile, he noticed the trends and patterns.  Sipping his cold Guinness and enjoying his favorite Swedish meatballs in a local bar in New York, he realized that the old model of his parents calling the shots in match fixing does not hold good anymore with the 2K and Instagram generation. 

He found that he was too young at the ripe old age of 30 in the matrimonial market since most of the girls available on these websites were close to 30 or older since most girls decided to postpone or give marriage a backseat in favor of their career, travel and other preferences whereas the old school parents had not realized this societal change and changing preferences among new generation. He learnt that the girls these days hold the final veto and not their parents which used to be the case when his parents tied the knot.

Change in the old model – Parents propose, parents dispose has been changed to Parents propose daughters dispose giving the prospective brides an unconditional veto these days thus leading to advancement in age of brides whereas the grooms' age remain the same as previously before the advent of the matrimonial websites and the Instagram/Tiktok generation.

Delayed marriage by women due to career aspirations, social media influence, lack of sanctity of marriage as an institution, lack of social stigma these days towards unmarried women and the lack of social stigma to divorce has made divorce normal.

Women are now financially independent and need not depend on their husbands financially or suffer in marriage like in the past. Staying single is no longer a taboo either.

Happy hunting!

Leon

Email: leonmelan99@gmail.com 

Check out the below link on the Top 12 Reasons why marriages don't happen these days!

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